Why people get hurt???????????

Because they love, or because they care, or because they show concern, or because they are well wishing for their beloved ones life, or because they need them and they are not with them, or because they expect something in return…………???????????????????????????????????

“Clueless and agonizing” is situation, after the recent developments in life.

I was questioned by my heart alias mind; it was jus runnin the same question again and again like a loop runnin infinitively in a C compiler. Feel good factors are no more seen from the loved person when u get hurt and u need a lot of time and lot of thinking to compromise urself and to achieve at a better solution to love them again to care them again. But still it haunts, those moments when they made u feel bad and they will come up to surface when u are sad again by getting hurt in the process of loving your loved one.

Whats the problem???????????????????

You love some body which means, you make them happy, you laugh with them for the idiotic jokes never heard off, and you feel that you are the soul mate, but why slowly same moments fade away. Because initially you were enjoying suddenly something or someone influences you and you are never able to enjoy those jokes or enjoy those moments with your beloved ones and in the end what you were expecting will be no more happy for you and you need new level of love or caring as they are bored to u.

Why because they knew in all ways, so they do care for your good and welfare and they will change themselves for making you happy and now you won’t like it and you fall for small temporary happiness’s that come from false peoples and their false intentions. So, now you are caught up with these new advancements and start neglecting the loved ones if you are not committed you will just switch for that new one and leave the old one, if you are married you will end up hurting them, if you are friend you will just start avoiding them.

So it comes to this that humans want to have the thing depending on their character and character is usually influenced by people, who are again influenced by somebody. It means it’s a circle of influential people in this world. Human ain’t made his/her own character/personality, he/she always imitates somebody or something that is comforting.

Its pretty clear now, for example family avoids all the things that hurt their emotions or hindered them in their growth, and they want to avoid their children to not to do that and out of curiosity and one will do the same thing and what one thinks that is comfortable and one will never learn from others mistakes and try to excel. They want everything to be known on their own to keep them busy on smaller things of life and to be stuck up there very few come out of this.

So, similarly when you love somebody and you want to see them excel but they never did because they want things differently. And you are not able to do meet their expectations and you end up getting hurt. You may think that sometimes scolding or being harsh will help you to push them towards the right way or path but they will never do that because now you are pushing them which is against to their will.

What can you do or that person can do???????????? Except getting hurt and staying alone or opting for break up or this world is made so cruelly beautiful that here only survival of fittest happens and even in this war of concern and love also the fittest and strongest one wins. Letting others become their slaves and in the end others end up changed as there is no other go…as they live for love.

In a war you may loose and you may war again with regained strength, but in war of love if you loose you are hurt, devastated, abandoned and can never re-war again to win the battle. And you never actually think of winning, actually you felt that you both make a the exact perfect recipe of life so you never thought of announcing war and winning, you thought of making your loved ones win in every aspect of life, but in the end you are the one who forced them to win and who felt you are pushing much and getting wrong perspective of your intention they leave you hurting you and leaving you alone in this world of LOVE.

To conclude U can just watch your beloved ones win or loose and you can be the part of their emotions which are controlled by others…. So in love there does never winning and loosing its just sharing…….and thriving to co-exist. Try not to let ur life controlled or influenced by others emotions, ur life ur love ur emotions are the ones which stay with u so be loyal with them and never surface wrong emotions due to temporary discomfort, or temporary elatedness. Have fun in being get hurt by ur love and hurting ur love. That’s it.