There is no thin line between Love & Hatred?

Love. What is the meaning of love? it’s a beautiful expression and a great feeling which can’t be revealed by words. The only thing that knows about that is heart [it’s actually mind]. And everybody says that one has to love each other, then only this painful sorrow world will get relief from its sorrows and peace will prosper and make this world a happily ever after place to live…

This is what all say…

Technically speaking love also got the meaning “ A strong positive regard and affection” and the list goes on…

Hatred. Hate is the word which actually got meaning and doesn’t deal with mind heart and anything.
“A feeling of dislike so strong it demands action”

when you google the word hatred you will be able to end up with only this meaning while for love you have got many…

The truth is both are feelings in human brain.

Let me put this like this, when you think about ‘relativity’ according to Einstein everything is relative and why am I relating his theory to ours the reason is hatred and love are feelings a kind of feelings that we possess towards something or a person due to our experience which might be bad or good which eventually leads to the love or hatred feelings in our mind.

With possession of such feelings they only differ in our expression. Might be it may takes less number of muscles to smile or more energy to be angry or hating something. The smart thing hiding behind these two is care and concern that we show towards a person or the object or instrumental things, which may help a person to grow or decline if it is a object its destruction or its safe-keeping.

And according to our relativity theory everything is relative so growth or decline are terms that show the relativeness to some reference point or to some datum. A toper in class is the one who scores high, that means his score is higher than others in class… so on the basis of comparison only the terms high, low, growth, decline are used.

At the end of the only that matters is concern which I was speaking earlier. So if you love more you care for him/her to help that persons growth which may be positive [according to Einstein you need blackness to show the value of brightness]. So you need something to compare. To show something which indicates your level of concern about that person. Even if you hate him you will show the same concern and care to eliminate or destroy. Which again due to you think that the thing or person is harmful to society or yourself or to your children. Which is your own view. according to the person this might be wrong because he has got his own reference point or datum from where what you see or percept will be totally contradicting and wrong………………………….

It makes clear that there is a line between love and hatred which exists no more and makes you feel clueless what to do? Even being clueless is a state of chaos. Which leads to a new situation or position of mind which helps you to overcome the previous situation and you feel comfortable and stop taking that thing or doing that thing and you make your own set of rules.

Now after your vigorous mind work you were not able to think more as everything is fuzzy so you want to have something stable so put some rules in front of yourself. Here framing rules is done by everybody but only winners can reinforce them and can spread them among people and create an order in society. So now our society got only one perspective of viewing things and leaving the losers rules or perceptions.

This means that love or hatred what ever they may be those are the feelings which have the common root of showing concern and care towards something to destroy or build it. And here one more thing for the one you love you may destroy like shah-jahan cut the hands of workers who built taj. And for the one you hate you may build lot of things they might be obstacles or anything which you think that, they may hinder the growth but other may take as an opportunity and might even a learn a lesson and will have same feeling which you had for him.

Love and hate are the two sides of a coin which you see in differently when you flip the coin.

A terrorist may love his rules that human is willing to die for his rules, A patriot who is a military personnel is willing to kill or die. What’s the difference here is they both think that what ever they do is good for them and their country or religion or for their fellow human beings for whom they show love. If a terrorist loves his rules will that make him to be hated as you hate those rules. So if you hate him you are showing concern and in turn he also returns the same thing to you.

So, in this relative world everybody deserves to get their love or hatred from somebody whom they love or hate. And it is inevitable that what ever you give out it comes back to you as a boomerang. And it will give the same impact on you which you gave on the person or thing or rules.

Nothing, not even a small thing is stable in this world. In a flick of butterfly wing anything may happen and but concern will be the same it will never change and it will be constant and it will grow in the levels you give out.

Don’t think much and before deciding whether you have to be loving or hating.just remember it’s your concern that everybody is expecting and everybody needed. So show your concern. good & bad, black & white, small &big never exist and they exist in our own thoughts and in our minds, which are run forward by rules that are made by winners of history and we here decide on their biased set of rules which neglect the other side of coin.

Do what is needed for survival if survival is needed for you?

Do what is needed for you to be happy?

Do what ever you want but the same concern of feelings love and hatred will be returned back to us.

We are running on the same clock again and again in different tracks that’s it.