WhEN THINGS go WRONG

When things go wrong….Ah…. So i lost the ring that I was wearing, and I had house fly in my cup of tea,I missed my train,,, I lost my purse,…there was a power cut when I was about to write cdsWhich is very important and I came to know that there won’t be restoration of power for some more hours.Whom do you blame for such things….the time or your irresponsibility of not prepain before hand or not getting ready for such things………..or missin such things in ur planning which always used to be fool proof made ur trip or schedule go haywire….

So do you get convinced that time, or some invisible hand or u think tat the fellow who created this world by rollin over dies or by takin chances rollin his dies for u to make ur life to take a turn that’s why he turns things and plans upside down to make u lead to other. And in the end u think or get convinced that everything that happened for u is for ur good and u have to be the victim for those inevitable twists that happen to u.Or do u blame the luck or fate, which has the only thing to do with u and ur plans messin up……..

Many of us thinks like thatLet me state this with an example, u decide urself to meet ur frnd whom u meet online [actually that frnd is a lady who got something to do with ur heart] so u start planning ahead frm a long time to meet this frnd.And everythin was fine u got ready and went there before hand and u came to know that due to some reasons she was unable to turn up…U get frustrated.

This is one kind of messin up…another wayU are ready and everythin was fine suddenly it starts rainin like cats and dogs when u are about to meet ur lady a car cruises beside u leavin u in mud covered clothes…now meetin her is a bad idea so u stop thinking of it..So when things happen like this which are beyond ur imagination…….then u will first get frustrated and then u will went out the anger or frustration by shoutin or breakin or scoldin……and in the last to convince urself u will say that wat ever happened it will be for my good only so I cant blame anybody…

And u think Somebody is takin care of me tats why I didn’t meet her… and it might for my own good…Or else I might have met some bloody lady who will screw up my life…And u will convince urself and u try a new gal who will be bad compared to her…and u will lead the lifeWhat happened here is u jus pushed urself into a comfort zone where u made up urself some reason that will help u to realize things such that what ever happened that helped you to end up like this.

As u want to be happy being not happy or being frustrated which led to u into such situation..Everything is Relative this is what u can conclude.So when people think that they are happy, they are not happy bcoz they didn’t do that thing like the way they wanted but they are convinced that whatever they did helped me to end here, where they are now workin things which came to them rather than workin for what they wanted… they are convinced to do what ever they are forced to do by their fate of rollin dies.

So life becomes miserable…So the relativity says that they will compare with somebody who are in lower level compared to them it might be in career or relationships or love anything and everything in this world and they will feel happy that they are greater and stronger than those…. And they stay there in that comfort zone and wont allow change and stink and die….that’s it…So everybody wants to excel in his own comfort zone rather than creating amazing things..

That’s how we all co-exist and we all want to stay in that comfort zone…If somebody gets out of it they are criticized and abandoned….
That’s why our history stinks bcoz we know only one side of coin..they suppress greater things that happened durin their era as they may overshadow their greatness.
History is a review of “STORY OF WINNERS” where they somehow succeed in suppressing other fellow…This is how we r brought up by our historians and this builded our culture……and we love to live that way and we love to stay in that comfort zone…
So from now when things go wrong don’t think its for best go back and try again…
Atleast give a try…And see the change