Am i ADMIRABLE????

He got this doubt when my friend told him that he is admired by him and few of his friends also told the same. Initially he was a elated, then proud, then when he started thinking, it came like this way….they admired him because he smiles even in adversities, is that a great attribute to admire.. .i know plenty of friends who can tackle things in right way, by showing right mix of emotions in right situations. which shows that they are balanced and have control over their emotions.

Now, coming to this after analyzing I concluded that “being happy or smiling is a state where you can stay with sorrows, angriness or being sleepy u can smile…similarly it varies for all feelings.....in our brain all we have is feelings. All above stated are feelings that overlap each other depending on our attitude. if he smiles a lot it says that he is not a balanced person, similarly like a angry person who gets anger for everything. We think that we feel better when we laugh but its not like that. The actual truth is one should have equal mix of emotions. Happiness is a state of feeling that changes from each persons perspective view, so its not a right mental state. Though they knew that they all are lot better than him but they were unable to recognize that. Guys just try to have right mix of everything then only the recipe [your personality] can be aromatic and tasty attracting all.”

So we are all gods made smaller things on earth that satisfy for smaller things please stop admiring somebody. a laughing person is a mentally handicapped one. If you still admire him, remember that u are still making him feel better and allowing him to ignore the fact and not allowing him to rectify himself.