Wednesday, April 2, 2008

What’s so funny being a good person?

Ah!!!!!!!!!!! My god………………are the words that she spoke when she met him today. He know that this is going to happen and was expecting those words from her. Be cause these are not the first ones he have seen, or heard or experienced in his life.

He was in school and he had this small crush thing with a gal, and there were sparks flying around as he being an extrovert he used to make an interesting talk with her and drag her towards him. He used to think that hearing to her is like knowing her and he decided to keep track of each and every expression and its outcome in detail. He liked her. Being grown up is bad dude stay dumb.

He decided to talk to her about their growing intimacy and thought of proposing her. And he felt her that she will be great for him to carry out his life and the blow was simple. It came very late to shatter everything. She liked somebody and she asks him to tell her love thing to tat guy and help her making him a bro or dearest friend. Which ever relation one can find to keep this guy at bay but still making him available.

And he didn’t notice this thing till the end of the game he was aghast and stood there and was thinking what was wrong with him. And he learnt the lesson but never tried changing his attitude as he thought he was like this and he deserved gal who suits him.

But gals are gals and boys are boys. You try to decipher a gal’s character that’s it she will say you are like my dad, you are like my mom. How caring you is, without you it would be difficult. I miss you a lot. But they think the guy who cares as a spare because he will be there and his being good will be with him forever.

Whom they love a friend of yours or somebody who may be flawed in his character and to pity him a gal finds the errors, flaws, in his character which she can rectify and can control him based on that. She wants him desperately because not she loves him, because she has pity for him, because she has found the slave of her life, because she can tune him for her requirements, because he is smart and dumb[being dumb is the boon to get a gal friend and it doesn’t mean that all are dumb who have gal friends].

Poor guys who fell for such things because they think that they were so radiating smart to get the gal to propose him. So, they fell in the trap as gals and women always have the soft corner. When you are teenage you always pity that how your lady relative is treated by her husband. Once you grow up you will find the valid point in the male side only.

Gals need a guy who can fix her computer who can tickle her who won’t question decision. If he questions that’s it gone relationship is broken. When the guy is smart they show guy as a bad guy and quit on him. They never accept that the sound from a clap from two hands. They say he is the solely responsible. And when some other guy shoots on her knowing that she is being ditched [sympathy factor] these gals want sympathy and after watching movies now a days so intelligent that they are not ready for a relationship.

This is power play when she says she needs time or some thing she actually takes time to scrutinize the guy and when he still carves for her then they will say OK. Or else no need.

She can’t live with a perfect person. She wants him to be there for suggestion, for help etc etc. when they are physically weak why they need jobs. Why they need things like reservation. They think [they say they want to live like that like this aspire a lot and sacrifice the career for us they say the sacrifice. What ‘s there to sacrifice they are made with their physique of such to be like that only. And exceptions don’t make rules one or two can be thrown off] frankly speaking they all want to be at home doing the stuff they like. Because they avoid risks. They nag a lot. Because the won’t get the attention and they get babies and grow them as they wanted not the best for them. Their frustration on a person or character makes the child’s character not his own identity.

So, being a good guy will always make you end up as a shoulder everybody care when they are down in career, in love, when they lost something. And then they realize that with this guy it canbe a happy and easy go. So they give a waving flag of green. Or else they will say how caring you are. Please for me so that I can get a good friend like u as my life partner. Fallen for these words a the perfect guy falls for her and when the old relation ship fellow poor guy who can’t forget her comes back to her. And as this new guy is good and he is only good and perfect and unable to control. Ad he knows about her she is a open book for him so she avoids him. And moves back with that old guy.

If a gal reads this she will say these things:
1. He shouldn’t have hidden his felings.
2. He knows her very well, how can he miss that she is not interested.
3. We are not dumb you guys are dumb understanding us.[how can a guy understand a chameleon who changes her color momentarily].
4. About old relationship: he is devil…
5. About patched up relation: I misunderstood him [in this way they take guys non-mistake to public telling that she made the mistake which again gets her sympathy and accepting her own mistake also makes this world think that guy is wrong]
6. He is a good person. [unfit for marriage with me, he is dumb and too much perfect]
7. This guy is amateur.

List goes on………………………….gals u rock in power play……………….