GOd is InTeLLiGenT[he might be a gent]: De' Marriage matters

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Saturday, March 24, 2012

Folding my sheets

Usually story unfolds but here stories are getting rustling in my sheets. Many a day ago it happened and I was excited and never got a chance to stop the rustling of the stories left in my sheets. It’s happening again and this time i donno whether i am taking time or acting dormant willingly.

Things are going fast. And i don’t know whether i need this thing happening or not. Turbulent were the past times and the times ahead maybe turbulent or serene, either way i am taking the path. My heart is in it’s place while my mind is still playing games. As the prefrontal cortex is in control now my emotional path way is not kicking in as a small baby who gets hurt, later never do the same thing again as the fear being hurt overcomes the joy of the finding something new.

Nascent in me feelings, Thoughts old as a tree, Here i stand not at cross roads but on the road. As the little thing called Hope is still keeping me alive and thriving to take the road and pursue.

Keeping my fingers crossed. Wishing that I could do something stupid again in my life for the one. Gimme strength to believe.

Then i crumpled all the stories which i took over from the sheets and going to burn them and fold the sheets. Then wait for a clean start, however dirty it might get and messy it may be. I donno whether i can tackle but i am ready atleast i know.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

What is correct with us?

We are always good with what is wrong with us or society and everything else. We are just not graceful to know how lucky we are, to have those special virtues to survive in the society.

How we tackled women empowerment is still an eye opener thing that I noticed. We still can accept women who earn less and as a wife. We [When I speak We it is society] are OK with our wives or sisters to earn more than us. Forget Earning we even let them Learn more than men. And always marry them to a guy who Learned and Earned a lot than them.

Marriage is such a soul mate thing now a days. Now we don’t have dowry at all, we have is token of love and affection. Arranged marriages which used to bitter business deals in olden days, now sugar coated. How Sweet !!

Shopping is a nice thing now a days. We shop for lot of reasons and we do show case that stuff in our homes to everyone. Similarly we get married and showcase each other for a year or so then get fed up or succumb to the partner’s choice or better have kids with no adoptions but helping in keeping the nation young.

Surprised to see women not celebrating birthdays because their husband is not there, I don’t get it?? Your beloved ne is not there that doesn’t meant that you need to sit and mourn or what??? You should have celebrated your past 20 or 25 birthdays without your husband, that’s why I understand this mourning is acceptable.

Emotional need and emotional baggage go in tandem, You should carry less so the need will be less. We always contradict the above statement, as we are from old school. How emotional we are to carry the dead weight. We believe in traditions for sure.

People when they marry, how unbiased they think, I still can’t imagine. The height and weight always matters, not in knowledge for sure. Standards should be met that are set by society or else you are filled with guilt.

People work more and earn the same as inflation is high. Now lot of people don’t know what to do when they are retired which is weird. Some still work rather than doing pursuing something. How down to earth we are. I here by to conclude that machines can never over take us. As we are machines. Now I Can sleep properly that the thought of not being ruled by machines.

We always embrace the change by deceiving it. By never changing in the ideals, but by always changing the appearance of the stands we take. How thoughtful and imaginative we are.

Adopt a kid if you have one. Or else adopt two and avoid having one. Believe in your gut feeling and I am not talking about you narcissists’ because I know what reply you are going to give.