Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Why to break the glass….?


Glass… a glass through which one can look through, but it still obscure the vision. Usually we all use such a glass around us to keep in the aura of not feeling intimidated by other person’s actions. And we always skip to notice those actions.

The glass will be always there… and it always helps us to feel better initially to stay with them for some time to later to more time. When once we decided to move with the person and then we want to spend more time with the person we like, through the glass. For us now the glass becomes like a veil covering the original person’s character and we as the being truthful at hearts act like children and wish to see the other side of the glass.

Thinking that the new frontiers of the other person will keep us more lively and also excited and funny, so that things are greater to live with that person. Everybody has their own reason to break the glass. Some love to see the other side, some are anxious, some are interested to see the other side, some love to break down the person into more simple logic so that they can pursue them for their own benefits, and some unknowingly break that.

Once it breaks, if there weren’t any assumptions things would be much better. But, with the perceptions and visions we have with the previous experiences we prefer to have an image and always try to match with that. Now, with the image not matching with the real one, people are more agitated and disturbed.

Actually breaking the glass should help but with this disturbance seeping into our lives we tend to send the waves of disturbance into everything possible. The distributed disturbance won’t vanish, as we are the disturbance and where ever we go we carry that spoiling what all is good.

Now, being not meeting the expectations causes agitations and we will never talk with the person once we are through the glass. And we think leaving them like that knowingly also will help us to cope up with them. Once the blocks of void start coming on between our loved ones and us, at this point we can only see the person we love to live with, very far though we are living with them very close to each other.

So, why break the glass. Some times even a nice friendship is also broken when one tries to break through the glass and cross the line and peak in to satisfy the little curiosity. And end up loosing all the masti and fun they are having. When some things are left untouched are better and preferred in that way.

It is not any call to break the glass and it is not either to keep it intact. Just a note to remember that when you break the glass what ever seems to be on the other side of the kaleidoscope you are watching might be not the same. So be prepared for nothing. Have fun with everything.