GODs [Good Old Days]

Today was one such day when I have decided to go back to my old and most lovable hobby, which is none other than blogging. Then I was searching for some good topic which I don’t do, but then it stuck to me that when I was in search of a topic I remembered how spontaneous I used to be to when I used to blog.

There was bryan adams summer of 69 playing in background so, this led me to say to myself that “those good old days”. Then started wondering, when you say those were the good old days, what did you meant exactly? Does these days you are living now are not so good to cherish about or the days you are living are way better or these are the best days you are having compared to old days. When you have said “GODs” they included the most embarrassing moment to most heart-warming ones.

Such varying emotional experiences are always happening. So why can’t we say or at least feel that we are having a good time. In general most people when they use the phrase “GODs” they never cherish their current day scenarios, sometimes they are worried about the current ones and dwell in the past saying that they were good compared to now. Again after few years they turn back and say those were the best days because of someone or something, which are currently not so glittering. Even in the worst conditions people always have something to feel good about their existing scenarios and that feeling good about something makes the days good.

This flawed system of ours, where we compare ourselves to feel better is always complicating rather than allowing us to savor the moments where we live. So, all it needs is a slight change in perspective and a little insight into ourselves to see things as they are and how better we are. Keep smiling to make every day a best one. So that you can turn back in life and say Good Old Days in faith that now you are having the best.

Why to break the glass….?

Glass… a glass through which one can look through, but it still obscure the vision. Usually we all use such a glass around us to keep in the aura of not feeling intimidated by other person’s actions. And we always skip to notice those actions.

The glass will be always there… and it always helps us to feel better initially to stay with them for some time to later to more time. When once we decided to move with the person and then we want to spend more time with the person we like, through the glass. For us now the glass becomes like a veil covering the original person’s character and we as the being truthful at hearts act like children and wish to see the other side of the glass.

Thinking that the new frontiers of the other person will keep us more lively and also excited and funny, so that things are greater to live with that person. Everybody has their own reason to break the glass. Some love to see the other side, some are anxious, some are interested to see the other side, some love to break down the person into more simple logic so that they can pursue them for their own benefits, and some unknowingly break that.

Once it breaks, if there weren’t any assumptions things would be much better. But, with the perceptions and visions we have with the previous experiences we prefer to have an image and always try to match with that. Now, with the image not matching with the real one, people are more agitated and disturbed.

Actually breaking the glass should help but with this disturbance seeping into our lives we tend to send the waves of disturbance into everything possible. The distributed disturbance won’t vanish, as we are the disturbance and where ever we go we carry that spoiling what all is good.

Now, being not meeting the expectations causes agitations and we will never talk with the person once we are through the glass. And we think leaving them like that knowingly also will help us to cope up with them. Once the blocks of void start coming on between our loved ones and us, at this point we can only see the person we love to live with, very far though we are living with them very close to each other.

So, why break the glass. Some times even a nice friendship is also broken when one tries to break through the glass and cross the line and peak in to satisfy the little curiosity. And end up loosing all the masti and fun they are having. When some things are left untouched are better and preferred in that way.

It is not any call to break the glass and it is not either to keep it intact. Just a note to remember that when you break the glass what ever seems to be on the other side of the kaleidoscope you are watching might be not the same. So be prepared for nothing. Have fun with everything.

WhEN THINGS go WRONG

When things go wrong….Ah…. So i lost the ring that I was wearing, and I had house fly in my cup of tea,I missed my train,,, I lost my purse,…there was a power cut when I was about to write cdsWhich is very important and I came to know that there won’t be restoration of power for some more hours.Whom do you blame for such things….the time or your irresponsibility of not prepain before hand or not getting ready for such things………..or missin such things in ur planning which always used to be fool proof made ur trip or schedule go haywire….

So do you get convinced that time, or some invisible hand or u think tat the fellow who created this world by rollin over dies or by takin chances rollin his dies for u to make ur life to take a turn that’s why he turns things and plans upside down to make u lead to other. And in the end u think or get convinced that everything that happened for u is for ur good and u have to be the victim for those inevitable twists that happen to u.Or do u blame the luck or fate, which has the only thing to do with u and ur plans messin up……..

Many of us thinks like thatLet me state this with an example, u decide urself to meet ur frnd whom u meet online [actually that frnd is a lady who got something to do with ur heart] so u start planning ahead frm a long time to meet this frnd.And everythin was fine u got ready and went there before hand and u came to know that due to some reasons she was unable to turn up…U get frustrated.

This is one kind of messin up…another wayU are ready and everythin was fine suddenly it starts rainin like cats and dogs when u are about to meet ur lady a car cruises beside u leavin u in mud covered clothes…now meetin her is a bad idea so u stop thinking of it..So when things happen like this which are beyond ur imagination…….then u will first get frustrated and then u will went out the anger or frustration by shoutin or breakin or scoldin……and in the last to convince urself u will say that wat ever happened it will be for my good only so I cant blame anybody…

And u think Somebody is takin care of me tats why I didn’t meet her… and it might for my own good…Or else I might have met some bloody lady who will screw up my life…And u will convince urself and u try a new gal who will be bad compared to her…and u will lead the lifeWhat happened here is u jus pushed urself into a comfort zone where u made up urself some reason that will help u to realize things such that what ever happened that helped you to end up like this.

As u want to be happy being not happy or being frustrated which led to u into such situation..Everything is Relative this is what u can conclude.So when people think that they are happy, they are not happy bcoz they didn’t do that thing like the way they wanted but they are convinced that whatever they did helped me to end here, where they are now workin things which came to them rather than workin for what they wanted… they are convinced to do what ever they are forced to do by their fate of rollin dies.

So life becomes miserable…So the relativity says that they will compare with somebody who are in lower level compared to them it might be in career or relationships or love anything and everything in this world and they will feel happy that they are greater and stronger than those…. And they stay there in that comfort zone and wont allow change and stink and die….that’s it…So everybody wants to excel in his own comfort zone rather than creating amazing things..

That’s how we all co-exist and we all want to stay in that comfort zone…If somebody gets out of it they are criticized and abandoned….
That’s why our history stinks bcoz we know only one side of coin..they suppress greater things that happened durin their era as they may overshadow their greatness.
History is a review of “STORY OF WINNERS” where they somehow succeed in suppressing other fellow…This is how we r brought up by our historians and this builded our culture……and we love to live that way and we love to stay in that comfort zone…
So from now when things go wrong don’t think its for best go back and try again…
Atleast give a try…And see the change