GODs [Good Old Days]

Today was one such day when I have decided to go back to my old and most lovable hobby, which is none other than blogging. Then I was searching for some good topic which I don’t do, but then it stuck to me that when I was in search of a topic I remembered how spontaneous I used to be to when I used to blog.

There was bryan adams summer of 69 playing in background so, this led me to say to myself that “those good old days”. Then started wondering, when you say those were the good old days, what did you meant exactly? Does these days you are living now are not so good to cherish about or the days you are living are way better or these are the best days you are having compared to old days. When you have said “GODs” they included the most embarrassing moment to most heart-warming ones.

Such varying emotional experiences are always happening. So why can’t we say or at least feel that we are having a good time. In general most people when they use the phrase “GODs” they never cherish their current day scenarios, sometimes they are worried about the current ones and dwell in the past saying that they were good compared to now. Again after few years they turn back and say those were the best days because of someone or something, which are currently not so glittering. Even in the worst conditions people always have something to feel good about their existing scenarios and that feeling good about something makes the days good.

This flawed system of ours, where we compare ourselves to feel better is always complicating rather than allowing us to savor the moments where we live. So, all it needs is a slight change in perspective and a little insight into ourselves to see things as they are and how better we are. Keep smiling to make every day a best one. So that you can turn back in life and say Good Old Days in faith that now you are having the best.

Identity crisis

All of us know about the zebra in Madagascar. It was happy, crazy one among all the characters who want to try something new. Then suddenly when they visit Africa in the sequel, it faces a identity crisis and it can’t stand the zebra crowd any more being a zebra. Though initially it was happy to see it’s family members slowly the fun fades off. As it is no more having a noticeable identity to brag about.

Most of the Human beings are no different from the zebra herd we have seen in the movie. They all are happy to be with their family but still want not to lose their identity. Now they crave for that extra attention that is what helps most of the people to excel in careers, perform difficult tasks not to please themselves but to quench the urge of being noticed and special.

What they don’t know is eventually all are doing the same thing. So, that they are always in the lime light. [This concept is generalized because most of us follow the same pattern. And exceptions are there but they are not considered for making rules].

Things you notice when people face such crisis of identity and start working towards nullifying it are:

Like having a caller back tune.

Initially having a ring back tune used to be the one that helped you to stand apart from the crowd. Now the difference in having a nice ring back tone and having a weird ring back tone makes you stand apart.

The problem is nobody can never be satisfied with what they have and the mirrors they see themselves are others opinions about them which are prejudiced. People can’t take up with the versatility for long time so eventually they will go back or withdraw and announce that as a new trend.

That’s why until or unless in a relationship if two persons don’t have a strong common point to share they can never stay together. The only way now a day’s keeping a couple together is social pressures rather than the common interests they have. It doesn’t mean that they should share same things from salad to sheets. It is the one strong point that has major share in their lives which keeps the people and bonds together. They may drift apart for some time because of identity crisis, but the strength of the commonality among them keeps the relation alive.

That’s why in our hindu culture [here I am not mentioning only this religion because I know only about this :D] a couple is separated in a year for some duration so that they both know the value of each other and that will keep the relationship health fully high. So, in this period their identity crisis is nullified being separate and they both know the value of each other and respect others uniqueness.

Hope we shall see a better trend in future.

Moments on my First ride...

--The end--

De' road to gooty

Patience is the mantra

its all seema

Naa Bujji ride...

Started @ 12

Proud parents

Dad @ work :)
(;...Missed capturing lot of moments as i was busy enjoying them... ;)

My First Trip to HOME

This is going to be my first trip........ more than 150 km in a day ;)
Going home…. Though my bike tag line is leave home… I am leaving to home.. :P
So… wish me luck…. Will keep u posted….with the updates….
And the trip is planned for this Saturday… :D