GODs [Good Old Days]

Today was one such day when I have decided to go back to my old and most lovable hobby, which is none other than blogging. Then I was searching for some good topic which I don’t do, but then it stuck to me that when I was in search of a topic I remembered how spontaneous I used to be to when I used to blog.

There was bryan adams summer of 69 playing in background so, this led me to say to myself that “those good old days”. Then started wondering, when you say those were the good old days, what did you meant exactly? Does these days you are living now are not so good to cherish about or the days you are living are way better or these are the best days you are having compared to old days. When you have said “GODs” they included the most embarrassing moment to most heart-warming ones.

Such varying emotional experiences are always happening. So why can’t we say or at least feel that we are having a good time. In general most people when they use the phrase “GODs” they never cherish their current day scenarios, sometimes they are worried about the current ones and dwell in the past saying that they were good compared to now. Again after few years they turn back and say those were the best days because of someone or something, which are currently not so glittering. Even in the worst conditions people always have something to feel good about their existing scenarios and that feeling good about something makes the days good.

This flawed system of ours, where we compare ourselves to feel better is always complicating rather than allowing us to savor the moments where we live. So, all it needs is a slight change in perspective and a little insight into ourselves to see things as they are and how better we are. Keep smiling to make every day a best one. So that you can turn back in life and say Good Old Days in faith that now you are having the best.

Identity crisis

All of us know about the zebra in Madagascar. It was happy, crazy one among all the characters who want to try something new. Then suddenly when they visit Africa in the sequel, it faces a identity crisis and it can’t stand the zebra crowd any more being a zebra. Though initially it was happy to see it’s family members slowly the fun fades off. As it is no more having a noticeable identity to brag about.

Most of the Human beings are no different from the zebra herd we have seen in the movie. They all are happy to be with their family but still want not to lose their identity. Now they crave for that extra attention that is what helps most of the people to excel in careers, perform difficult tasks not to please themselves but to quench the urge of being noticed and special.

What they don’t know is eventually all are doing the same thing. So, that they are always in the lime light. [This concept is generalized because most of us follow the same pattern. And exceptions are there but they are not considered for making rules].

Things you notice when people face such crisis of identity and start working towards nullifying it are:

Like having a caller back tune.

Initially having a ring back tune used to be the one that helped you to stand apart from the crowd. Now the difference in having a nice ring back tone and having a weird ring back tone makes you stand apart.

The problem is nobody can never be satisfied with what they have and the mirrors they see themselves are others opinions about them which are prejudiced. People can’t take up with the versatility for long time so eventually they will go back or withdraw and announce that as a new trend.

That’s why until or unless in a relationship if two persons don’t have a strong common point to share they can never stay together. The only way now a day’s keeping a couple together is social pressures rather than the common interests they have. It doesn’t mean that they should share same things from salad to sheets. It is the one strong point that has major share in their lives which keeps the people and bonds together. They may drift apart for some time because of identity crisis, but the strength of the commonality among them keeps the relation alive.

That’s why in our hindu culture [here I am not mentioning only this religion because I know only about this :D] a couple is separated in a year for some duration so that they both know the value of each other and that will keep the relationship health fully high. So, in this period their identity crisis is nullified being separate and they both know the value of each other and respect others uniqueness.

Hope we shall see a better trend in future.

Now i knw wat to do?

Now I understood that why am I watching all the movies on the first day first releases.

Then suddenly it dawned to me that I was in search of solace which I never found after my break up. And was searching for some kind of answer or justification, which can provide me an answer and that may help me to move on. And it is evident that movies always have happy endings and you will never find an answer there. All I end up is more wounded as every movie had a happy ending even the more realistic ones.

And my guess always used to be the best as hero wins in the end by winning hearts or dies by winning hearts. Now I am in a state of awful regret of why I didn’t take that extra step. Even if it wouldn’t have worked I must have given a try. Why I didn’t try??? And now being socialized online I am always haunted or found easily by the people who were supposed to stay far.

Being wounded I am in need of a shrine, which I am yet to find. That makes me desperate and now finding shrines in every other person and knowing that it is not the one I am confused and lost. God all I need is a light. Provide me and show me the path.

And I suddenly came to know that the last eighteen months I wasted which is costing me a lot. I am aged and girls and boys being 4/5 ratio it is tuff to find a lonely one outside. Even if I find she is not spreading the magic needed. What am I now desperate bachelor now going home and asking for an arranged marriage.

Where chances are too bad, as one have to please aunty, uncle and relatives rather than daughter. Everybody checks your pay check and BMI. So they can have better off springs. Is that all we are living for. Is that the only thing we worry for? Why can’t people believe on others? Is believing tuff or the fear of unable to handle when belief is broken is avoiding people to believe.

Now I am at the cross roads where I took a decision to stop watching movies on first days. Hope I may stick to it.

The Societal Collapse breakers

The greater societies melted off, only when people of those societies never had anything to chase for in their lives and they were pretty calm and happy needed nothing. Then suddenly one day their brains are infected with the new things that might be technology or another way of life or any materialistic things which weren’t available to them at that point. That may give power to that person or extra satisfaction or extra zeal to chase more things. As being the superior animal race on earth with the most beautiful and complicated weapon called brain, always makes us to want some thing to feed on.

There are three kinds the in human colony on earth small human, intelligent and cunning U can call. If you have good vocab add it.

Then human came to know how to entangle his/her race so that people won’t get more effectively intelligent and powerful and still holding the threads of every body in hands. In other words by keeping every body busy with his/her illusions like reality, which make people to work in the same circle of life without bending it or mending it into new shape or giving the new dimension. And these are cunning.

This makes the possibility seekers of new dimension as mad and the strict followers as the leaders, winners and what ever dumb intelligence. So, these fellows who run the same circle hard and fast become luxury and sophisticated, embarrassing the fellows who believe in new dimension. Every growth cycle gets stagnated at some point. And it no longer runs further it runs there only and stays there or starts again with limited resources or exploiting resources or saving resources.

Now, every cycle is best only with what it resources or things with which it started. Living the same old life circle with the limited resources or change in situations is no more accepted. That’s when we evolve and follow this new dimensional guy or gal. What a pity???

Humans always want to be comfortable without change. And when there is no change they carve for change and collapse the thing they have or damage the society. So the people who identify try to enlighten the people, which nobody accepts as the brightness of knowledge they have is what they think enough and more. So they call himDumb or mad and they try to pull him back into the circle and humans he knew this new dimension they already started investing in that new dimension with the help of those dumbers, and when the time comes, they are safe again making this tough to the normal people. They deserved that because they ignored the so called mad people’s call. And speaking unbiased everybody has made their choice its only execution after selection of choice. Once the decision made they are all puppets. That’s how our society is made.

And here it goes when IPL starts in INDIA, its similar to sequence in gladiator movie when the king rather than treating people from their grievances he makes a big Colosseum and diverts everybody from their problems everyday. That’s how IPLT20 is diverting population of INDIA into a state of argument with each other and quarrelling with each other so that they forget all the problems they have and they won’t ask more. Being India divided mainly on linguistic based states, they always quarrel on everything like from water to land and if they don’t have any other thing they will start on language.

Now, the people who are playing the game [I mean not players] are the smart ones living in the circle and for the circle. For them the only thing is to live sophistically or luxuriously in the circle. And making the dumb ones to live their lives forgetting about inflation, global warming and putting only fun in their minds at the end of the day. By the day, when the whole cycle thing gets over, everybody stays back and the people who play these games will be safe again. As they have reaped what they want.

In this way those people still keep these people busy about not thinking of the new way of life and still making this cycle run with their precious minds going waste. It doesn’t mean that people shouldn’t enjoy and they start thinking. As farming previously in olden ages it was 25% providing to the 75 % percent of population now it’s 4% providing the grains. Technology helps, but it also evolves and according to the same circle only. If they find new they hide it to hold the power in hands.

Similarly, these games keeping people busy for the whole simmering summer and allowing them to forget and allowing them fight on some new teams which have no egos or linguistic fights.

People when given knowledge they say no because they won’t need. They need such things only when they are in dire need of such things.

If you try to enlighten people they call you mad.

Rather spreading the word u keeps it to urself and have fun. u master the technique of sustaining. U will be safe.

If u are a philanthropist it’s up to u to decide.

Being BOSS never make u KING.
Being KING never safe as there is a KING-MAKER>>>>>

This article is a case study nothing to be offended.

more info on societal collapse:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Societal_collapse

When women like or love U[men]:P

When u listens to her………..ahhhhhhhhhhhh

When u are in deep trouble and when u look around and she is the only one to whom you can express and weep.

When u remembers dates…

When u say to her that she has got the biggest problems in the whole world.

When u lie.

When u can confess truth and start pleading, when she knows that u lied.

When u says that without her ur life would be a turmoil.

When u laugh for her crappy jokes which won’t make sense.

When u bow down to ask her to be ur life partner. [as she got the balls I her court]

When u say no when she asks u out.

When u won’t give suggestions for her problems.

When u won’t try not to rectify her problems.

When u say her decision is best for a situation.

When u say that she made ur life beautiful and because of her u got breath taking moments.

When u neglect her identity in a group.

When u beg her for kiss.

When u call her back after dumping.

When u say that if u listened to her your life would be better.

When u scold her enemy and just get enough angry in front of her.

When u make her fear or when u make her have the control of your life.

Women and fish are always attracted to FLASHY things [restated by BARNEY]

Please note: All above statements are true only when u r not heart full. Some times for getting loved truly u can do anything as there is no winning or loosing, gain or loss, faith is the only one runs….which is blind
[Trying to be DIPLOMATIC]
this is VAGUE u can relate or not relate it's up to U[:D]